Let’s Get the L Out of Here, Sisters!

Mayday4Women supports lesbian separation from any kind of queer politics and transgenderism. “LGBTQ” politics have failed lesbians, contributing to our erasure and to enforcing compulsory heterosexuality on us! Even before the rise of transgenderism, lesbians were always treated by gay men as second-class citizens and lesbian culture was never supported, or even respected, by this political alliance with men. With the latest developments in what is wrongly called “gender identity”, heterosexual men who pretend to be women are now trying to impose themselves as “lesbians” on the rest of the world and, above all, on actual lesbians. This is pure rape culture and compulsory heterosexuality imposed on lesbians and on our identity, sexuality, culture and dignity.Far from condemning those men, “LGBTQ” organisations are ideologically and financially enabling them, while shaming lesbians. Butch lesbians and lesbians who do not conform to femininity are increasingly pressured into coming out as “transgender men” or “non binary”.

We believe that as women, lesbians have much more in common with other women than with any man. Therefore, lesbians’ first political group of reference is women, not the queer alphabet soup.

We want:

  • To reassert the definition of lesbian = a woman (an adult human female) who is sexually attracted to and has sexual and emotional relationships exclusively with other women (adult human females).
  • The “L” to leave this absurd coalition called “LGBTQ”
  • Respect for lesbian separation and autonomy
  • To reject the Born This Way rhetoric imposed by gay men on lesbianism, rhetoric which was always designed at attracting pity and sympathy for “the freaks who really can’t help it”, not pride and liberation. Compulsory heterosexuality is designed to disproportionately control women and girls. This means lesbians often have very different trajectories away from heterosexuality than gay men do. Lesbians have little in common with gay men.
  • Protection for lesbians from men, however they call themselves, trying to enforce heterosexuality on us.
  • To create and protect lesbian culture and lesbian-only spaces.
  • To stop the transing of lesbians who do not conform to femininity

On the 30th anniversary of the introduction of Section 28, it is very clear that there has been 30 years of decline. Section 28 was part of the backlash against the politicisation of lesbian and gay sexualities. There has been enormous capitulation since then, and many have abandoned the revolutionary politics involved in lesbianism. Whilst gay men have been rewarded institutionally by the liberalisation of their politics, lesbians have only dropped further into invisibility. The representation of gay men in the media has increased, online, and in politics – and for this we do not mean reformism, counting MPs and the like, but who is allowed spaces (bars, shops, clubs), resources (organisations, groups) – the representation of lesbians is entirely absent (there are heterosexual versions of lesbianism allowed on TV, such as the promotion of ‘femme culture’ as apology and sop to the male gaze).

Lesbian culture, like all female cultures under patriarchy, is a dominated one. There remains only one single lesbian bar in London and our media, such as Diva magazine, is actually complicit in the dismantling of lesbian culture.
As we continue to fall in numbers, due to the erasure of our culture, transgenderism, and other threads of anti-lesbianism, something must be done to challenge this situation.

9 thoughts on “Let’s Get the L Out of Here, Sisters!

  • I’ve always felt that lesbians are more like women than they are like gay men. Gay men always seemed like men without the civilizing influence of women – the clubs with the glory holes, the high rates of non-monogamy, etc.

    So, yes, DroptheT!

  • Is there a way to put a “like” button on your pages? I only see one for Facebook, which a lot of us don’t use….

  • Hi Newfielover 41,

    We don’t have any “like” button on our website but thank you for your comment!

  • Solidarity sisters, Sara. Well done for standing up for female bodily autonomy, feminism and specifically lesbian women and girls against the institional and endemic sexism of the so called LGBTQ community infested with male dominated, liberal, corporate driven identity politics. Time for female-led revolution

  • Thank you for this statement. As a womon and feminist,
    I have always believed I have more in common with bisexual and straight women than with any man, including, and perhaps especially, gays. The major gay organizations, and those that were ostensibly for LGBs, were always male-dominated, and had a goal of men gaining acceptance and assimilating into patriarchy, while lesbian feminists have had the goal of dismantling and replacing it. Then came the queering and transing of even those already male-dominated organizations and politics. No thank you.

    I’m also so glad to read, “To reject the “Born This Way” rhetoric imposed by gay men on lesbianism, rhetoric which was always designed at attracting pity and sympathy, not pride and liberation.” What a relief to find lesbians who reject “Born this way.” Thank you.

  • I am a gay man, I really do not know why the Trans community want a Title in the gay community. Surely, our community is about being attracted to the same sex? Transsexuals feel that they are in the wrong sex? As I understand them. This plays into the hands of St8 “understanding”. ” All gay men want to be women”…..not really, I am fondly attached to my willy and certainly don’t want it cut off. I have spoken on the phone about this to London Friend, and other gay groups and told that my argument has no space there. Really?, I obviously have no voice on this issue ,
    I feel isolated by own community. Shame on them

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